kingofprussia
(newbie)
4/11/01 10:38 PM
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growin
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whats up everyone ok im a 19 year old and started smokin herb when i was 16 but have been smokin it on the regular(at least daily) for the last year, my moms boyfriend smokes also i smoke with him and even sell him bud occasionaly, but my mom is smoke free. Now she knows he smokes and lets him smoke around her, and i smoke in my room a lot, like a few times a day so she definatly has to know that i puff.....heres the problem its time for me to take the next step and start growin, but i dont want to unknowingly put her at risk. i was wondering if anyone out there (particularly parents) had any positive advice on what i can do, or how i can approach her with this, remenbver positive advice helps..haha thanks all ONE LOVE~~~JAH LOVE
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PurpleDurban
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4/12/01 10:08 PM
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Re: growin
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If you want to totally garauntee your mom's safety, grow outdoors.
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green_girl
(journeyman)
4/13/01 05:03 PM
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Re: growin
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I don't have any suggestions (although if she's dating a pot smoker maybe you could approach the boyfriend first and have him help you warm her to the idea) but I have to say that's very honourable fo you not to put your mother at risk without her knowing. There's too many kids who are willing to do that. Congrats.
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shiznitz
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4/14/01 07:22 PM
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Re: growin
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Don't grow in your mom's house...
It's good that she's cool with you smoking, so if you want to grow, do it outdoors until you get your own place...
LEGALIZE...
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barneyfife
(newbie)
4/15/01 10:48 PM
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Re: growin
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have to agree with shiznitz. but if you have a good friend with his own place. you could be partners. plus cost would be cut in 1/2. some may not like having a partner. but for you not to grow in your moms house. it may be the only way. i have a partner but ive known him since we were about 8yrs. old. i even met my wife though him. shes his cousin. anyway a good partner ship is almost like a marriage. you have to really trust eachother. good luck
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shiznitz
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4/17/01 06:23 PM
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Re: growin
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Yeah, a partnership would be cool, but would also be risky... But since you guys are major friends, and can trust each other, then there's nothing wrong with that... But I wouldn't recommend growing with your friend if you don't know them all too well... If you can't talk to them about everything, consider that a sign that you shoudn't be growing with them...
LEGALIZE...
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Shay
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4/17/01 09:18 PM
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Re: growin
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My advice to you is what so ever don't grow in your mom's house. Its cool that she knows you smoke and keep it at that. Don't push your boundries or take a foot when she gives you an inch. Also don't let her know you grow because that will just put more concern in her heart for you. -Shay
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big-G
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4/30/01 03:41 PM
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Re: growin
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when I was a kid,one way I got my parents to lighten up was to talk honestly to them about the economics of it all,how much how much costs(that didnt sound right but you get the idea),that with you buying smoke on the street it puts you in harms way and how it adds to the street crimes,thus perpetuating the war on drugs.Explain to them that big business has made using cannabis wrong in the eyes of the world ,when if they knew the truth about it,it would seem trivial in comparison to the other hard drugs and the problems that society has because of them.Do some research on cannabis and be able to argue the point like an informed adult.Honesty is always the best policy........G.
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