FlashGordon
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2/8/00 03:40 AM
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If you could have sex with the sexiest person you can think of or even marry them but had to give up pot would you?
Ive thought about this one and i wouldnt .
I dont have a partner and i dont have a big sex drive
I wonder if my everyday night and day use of pot dulls my libedo ?
I dont think id want to have sex if i wasnt free to get high before or after
For me a romantic setting includes marijuana
But i would say marijuana is more important to me than sex
Enjoys the Healing Herb
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Sol
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2/8/00 04:48 PM
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I choose the herb also...
If a woman can't respect my right and accept the fact that I love Cannabis then she is simply not for me... I have turned all my girlfriends into stoners well I was going out with them and most of them still are....
Besides, if I can't get laid I can always smoke a bowl and "love" myself....
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raisins
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2/8/00 04:48 PM
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Pot hands down. I've had some amazing sexual experiences as of late, but I must say that without ganja they would have just been normal. Besides, this has been said about beer, dogs, cats, etc...herb will never give you as much trouble as the opposite sex. I will get tired of sex long before I ever even come close to thinking about becoming tired of weed. I can put herb in my pocket and have it whenever I want. Cheeba comes in all shapes and sizes and you can choose what kind of herb you want and when. You can grow the perfect crop, or you can buy smoke from someone you don't know and not feel dirty about it. Can this be said for the opposite sex? Nope.
raise the roof
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Island_Girl
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2/8/00 06:10 PM
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i too, have turned all my exs into pot heads :-)
ahhh ....I remember the days they would say they would never smoke, not even for me.
Now they call me up to see if i want to smoke for old times sake. hehehe
Island Girl~
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Dana Larsen
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2/8/00 11:46 PM
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As a teen I went through a tortuous relationship when the love of my life didn't like the fact that I was becoming a pot-head. We had lots of fights about it. Eventually we broke up, for that and other reasons.
So I learned my lesson, and I won't give up pot, or some of my other curious habits, for anyone.
Dana Larsen
Editor, Cannabis Culture Magazine
ccmag@cannabisculture.com
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texasrebel
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2/9/00 11:00 AM
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i feel you dana.i had the same thing happen, the girl of my life, my girlfriend when i was 16....for three years....i started smoking pot and she didnt like that.she also cheated on my and broke my heart.
if somebody cannot except you for who you are and what you stand for, then there is no point to the relationship.my present girlfriend is a major pothead,but she questions if i like pot more than her.
when its legal,they cant say shit.in fact,i have often dreamed about the day it is legal and i can go look up my old girlfriend and tell her how terrible she was to break apart a relationship just because of a plant.women can be so irrational sometimes.
peace
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l'tlgreen
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2/9/00 11:45 AM
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I cann't believe what I am reading!! Guys who aren't thinking with their dicks?!? This cann't be for real. I'd love to put your opinions to the test. Then which head would you guys be thinking with?!!!
;) l'tl green
p.s. What other curious habits do you practice!!
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Island_Girl
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2/9/00 12:00 PM
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Hahaha
Well, I don't think they are saying they don't want someone, its just that if yur partner made you pick, even if you decided to stay with them,
there would always be a small resentment, i mean after being a smoker, it is hard to give it up forever.
I will never quiet, and I told my man. He hated me smoking before when he didn't know what it was about.
know that hes smoked. hes ok with it.
If I had to choose, I don't know what I would do.
Thank god hes not making me choose!
Peace
~Island Girl~
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MerryJane
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2/9/00 12:08 PM
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Pot - no question; it lasts a lot longer and there is no shit to put up with afterwards.
Also, you can do it over and over and over again. Now, if you had said sex AND love
I would have to think about it very carefully. It would be a difficult decision.
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raisins
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2/9/00 02:11 PM
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In the ninth to tenth grade, I played soccer and we practiced in "double sessions" for about two weeks in the summer. One practice at 8:00 AM and one at 4:00 PM. Before I started going out with this girl, my bros and I used to get piss drunk and smoke up every day between sessions. I started going out with her and this stopped, because she didn't like it and I was a fool enough to conform to her rules. Whipped, it's called. Anyways, my bros and I became more and more distanced from each other without times like the double sessions, and even on weekends I couldn't go out, had to spend time with her. Not that this wasn't partially my decision, but the point is it wouldn't have happened wthout the girl. Finally, after a year or so, we broke up and I got back into my groove, but lost a couple of bros who couldn't forgive me. When we broke up, she didn't smoke or drink at all; a good girl. But our paths crossed often at parties, and she became more and more adept to my former lifestyle, and I had resumed that lifestyle. Then once she had a party at her house when her parents were gone. I brought a sack and she couldn't help but try it with the rest of us. That night, she and one other kid became potheads. They smoke at least twice as much apiece as I do now. This goes to show a few things. First, that partners will come and go for the most part, but ganja will always loom up from the horizons. Secondly, that herb is so powerful that it will open new doors, even for people who are set against it. I would give anything to go back and get back the bros that I lost because of the relationship. In the end, the only girl that will always be there is Mary Jane, until the day you die if you want.
raise the roof
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Anonymous
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2/10/00 04:06 PM
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high all..this is Emmie..i "forgot" my pass(i'm sure i've got it right..sheeeshh...stupid stoner :) )
i honestly don't think i could hold a relationship together without pot..cos all the stupid negative things i do and think, related to my relationship are anxiety/insecurity/deppression issues....which pot clears up for me..i enjoy sex much more stoned...but i miss having female friends......smoking is largely a guy thing and the few other stoner girls i have met(except for one, who's friendly and generous...high:) Nik!!!, actually make that two..high to the very cool Drewby :) ) have been very keen to smoke all my pot and make plays at the bf cos he's always got lots of it.. . if i had to choose i would choose pot...but it would hurt me if someone who liked me enough to want to get intimate..didn't like me enough to want me to be calm and happy.
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Island_Girl
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2/10/00 09:10 PM
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Hi Emmie!
Thats a bummer no girls to smoke with. All my girlfriends here smoke.
We make it a thing to go out and smoke together, "Girls nite out with Mary Jane"
hehe
You can kick it with us if you are ever in the area!
Peace
~Island Girl~
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MisterMagoo
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2/10/00 11:31 PM
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I'm gonna have to go against the grain and cast a vote for sex. Getting high is good, but I can't say I like it better than sex.
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jeremys
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2/11/00 10:07 AM
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i like sex and herb so i will never deside because i already did and i regreat it, i tookthe relationship and ipayed for it her mom goes and say's go out and get drunk come back we will talk and she dumped me and smoked so much and know i feel free to smoke and have sex. get hi and lick her till the next morning she thank you in the morning.
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Anonymous
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2/11/00 04:33 PM
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Emmie-the-vauge here:) high Island Girl, thanx..if you ever come to Australia come hang out with me and the boys...girls night out with mj sounds great..i always wanna go clubbing...do you prefer sativa's or indica's???me i like indica's.
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bluebuddha
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2/11/00 05:01 PM
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In my opinion anyone who isnt into smoking herb or doesnt mind me smoking herb isnt the kind of person I want to associate with much less date or have sex with. All of my girlfriends have smoked as does my current. Pot smokers are a breed of their own.
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Mickitymac
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2/14/00 01:44 PM
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Thats not a fair question....If you are asking if I would give up the ganja for a girl...no, my girl would have to be a smoker too.I f I had a choice between just sex or just pot I would pick.......well ahh...since I really don't have to choose, toss this question in the dumper...it's too hard, is it really good sex? or really good weed...I have had shwag of both..I can tell you it is a lot a fun getting stoned with a bunch of ladies and just hanging out though....good women stoners are a special breed. Mm
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JEZABEL
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2/14/00 04:54 PM
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Hey Emmie
I feel you on the password thing. I had to start all over a while ago. If you ever come to the Northern half
of California let me know. Forget the sex thing, we will smoke lots of pot.
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gjpete1
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2/14/00 07:40 PM
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After being married for 27 years, a fuck is just a fuck. I would rather spend time with the women I love than smoke a joint any day! Shit people, what the hell is life about? Do you want to spend your life with a plant? Think about it, you may only have one chance to experience the beauty of really loving someone else in your life, would yooou let a plant take that away from you? Not ME. She loves me in spite of my love of MJ.
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Kiddo
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2/15/00 11:52 AM
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27 years ouch
thats commitment
well being a new comer to both worlds
he he
i would choose pot cause the other one has gotten me in trouble before
neways this issue has come up recently
with my girlfriend shes kinda pressing away from pot but im
trying to rekindle the pothead in her
ne sugestions?
greatly appreciated
~kiddo~
ps these new forums are great
shout outs to however mad them
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raisins
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2/15/00 02:04 PM
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I think the main difference between the people like Gipete who choose love and people like me who choose herb is that I am part of the younger generation who is either at or approaching the "pinnacle" of life, if you consider the pinnacle to be the balance of youth, discovery, and wisdom, neither outweighing another. All seem to be equal at this point, but I know my youth will fade, discovery will metamorphose into a different experience, and wisdom will hopefully come with time. At this point, I'm convinced I've felt true love and honestly, it scares me. I've gotten sick to my stomach over it, and the particular instance I am talking about was nothing but trouble. At this point, I need to discover me before I can discover anyone else, and ganja is a very intricate part of the equation. Looking back, I was basically married for a year and I must say that in retrospect it sends a really negative vibe, enough so that I'm not sure if I ever want to be in a solid relationship, especially not right now. I realize that my youth will fade, and that scares me. My greatest fear is not anything to do with death, but of being old and not being able to do what I can now physically, etc. I would never want to live forever, especially if it meant aging. I can't forsee the satisfaction of life over 50, that's the way I am. So for me, herb has been a life instructor in that I have found the door to my own personal happiness with it. I will say that the relationships I have had with any person that have been based on herb have matured to make all non-herb relationships pale in comparison. I've never lost someone who I met or came close with by tokking, and I'll choose that love over the other any day of the week as long as I think the way that I do now. I'd take any one of my friends over any of the relationships I have had. It's true what they say...partners come and go, but friends are there no matter what. And if herb has led me to the people that I have found to be loyal and true, the type of friend you'd risk your life for, I'm not going to give it up just for one person to love. I think that if a joint is just a joint, then it wasn't meant to be a spiritual connection for you, and there is something else out there for you. I like herb above all for what it has done to help me be at ease in this horrid world, and I've never been at ease in a love based relationship. I'm a free spirit, so to say. If you're into astrological meaning I'm a Pisces, and I've lived the most lives out of the other signs. I often feel this way, and I can amuse myself by thinking that the only things that have seen as many miles as my soul are my bowl, herb, and other Pisces.
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Marc Scott Emery
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2/15/00 05:00 PM
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No relationship of any kind can survive at close quarters unless there is agreement on fundamentals, how to raise children, money, philosophy (religion/lifestyle), and sex.
If a couple is at loggerheads over any one of these, that relationship is doomed. No exceptions. If smoking pot is an intrinsic part of your philosophy/lifestyle, and you involve yourself intimately with someone who has positions intolerant of any of those 4 areas that you hold dear, no long-term relationship is possible.
Candidly, I couldn't even consider a relationship with a person not open to psychedelic experiences with marijuana, ecstacy, DMT (especially DMT), mushrooms, 2-CB (especially 2-CB! Fuck you and lick you and do wild orgy stuff for hours).
The problems is when all women at the beginning of a relationship, in order to snag you, will do it all, ass-fucking, blow jobs galore, threesomes, drugs of all kinds but within a year or two a woman in a relationship gets very comfortable and starts becoming conservative, settled, married and then wants kids and then there is no sex, no money, no drug experimentation, no orgies, and... no fun/energy.
Life is hell and you're stuck with it, and as a guy, you wonder if you are in a David Byrne Talking Heads song...
"This is not my beautiful house
This is Not My Beautiful Wife
How did I get Here?
(Letting the Days Go By,
Letting the Water Slowly In)
Its a Drowning in Boredom Song and its Relationship Angst that almost all of us end up in but boy we sure had no intention of letting it unfold that way
(and you may find yourself
living in a shot-gun shack,
and you may find yourself
in another part of the world,
and you may ask yourself,
Well, HOW DId I GET HERE?
(Letting the days go by,
Let the water hold me down,
Into the blue again,
after the moneys all gone,
ONCE IN A LIFETIME...
Same as it ever was
Same as it ever was
-Talking Heads, Once In A Lifetime
Marc Emery - Moderator
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FlashGordon
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2/16/00 01:25 AM
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marc i cant believe your sweeping generalizations about the course of relationships peoples relationships have all kinds of rythms I would expect that younger people would see sex as more important than pot.But the great thing is that nobody has to choose they are both great .I was wondering what fantasys are most important to people thier sexual fantasys or toking fantasys ?or do their sexual fantasys always necesarily involve pot .Malmo levine saws he tokes up while having sex
Enjoys the Healing Herb
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sweetnugs
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2/16/00 08:11 AM
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The question was sex or pot, not love or pot. Love and sex are different bananas. Been married almost 35 years and would never give up my love. But then, I am lucky 'cause my love loves her tokes almost as much as I do. We will probably have lungs filled with thc in our last breaths........
sex with no pot is like apple pie without cheese........
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raisins
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2/16/00 01:56 PM
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What if you don't like cheese? The question was sex or pot, but I think it became love or pot because sex or pot was a no brainer generally speaking. As far as fantasies go, I personally don't really have any where the two worlds collide. My sex fantasies are just that, and the same for pot fantasies. My sex fantasies often seem to be based on other experiences, just modified and intensified. I fantasize more about people I know than people I see on TV or in magazines, never involving herb. I think it's just easier to develop a clearer picture that way. As for pot fantasies, I have lived a few. I like intellectualism and insight, especially when I smoke. I'm more apt to be in the room at a party where people are gathered at a table talking about politics or world issues or spiritualism with some Floyd in the background rather than the room where people are playing video games, giggling, and telling jokes with party music playing. I like the smoky room atmosphere where everyone is sitting down and engaging in various types of thought. Sex has never meant a lot to me, despite the fact that my bros' favorite nickname for me is "Sluts" and the occasional "Sticks" after the Thai Sticks I took to Woodstock for us all that got us totally messed up. I was raised in a community where the tokkers were the kids who were either good at sports or smart, basically the popular crowd. I am a little of both leaning towards the intellectual side, always debating with my bros. I guess this has changed my perspective somewhat in that women have never been a problem for me, being a part of that crowd, and they've came and gone more than I can even count on my hands and toes. The point is, in my situation, herb has never failed me, which has made herb be the glorifying factor in my favorite fantasies. This brings me back to the cheese thing because everyone is different, and not always just because of how they think. How you live is entirely as much influencial, and my fantasies are based on what has made me the happiest, which is herb. The grey area in the middle seems to be herb and sex for me, but I have to say that I enjoy tokking more than even sex when I'm high, because sex has never meant much to me and it seems to almost add a certain limit to my high. The sensation is great, but my best fantasy would be to be able to smoke with all my closest friends and bond, have a few laughs, and have a good conversation. Maybe even play a little tennis. That's just my view, and I find it comforting to know and see that others have a different perspetive on things; that we are all not drones following the piper to our graves.
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Marc Scott Emery
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2/17/00 01:33 AM
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When you're the Prince of Pot, Publisher of Cannabis Culture, etc., well.... I'm living my pot fantasy, this is my idea of Spiderman or Daredevil or Reed Richards or Green Lantern (circa 1970) come to life. The celebration and liberation of Cannabis.
Well, now my sex life is much less glorious, so I have lots of sexual fantasies...
But you can't work it out between a couple if one is into pot and the other not. I mean, why would you want to...
Marc Emery - Moderator
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raisins
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2/17/00 01:23 PM
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The Green Lantern is the greatest comic character of all time. We have named three of our apparatuses the Green Lantern: Green Lantern Classic is a transluscent green glass fumed pipe, the Green Lantern is a one and a half foot two chambered fluorescent green acrylic bong, and Green Lantern II is an automated green glass and acrylic steamroller with a one inch fan intake pump so you don't even have to suck to fill it, runs on two AA batteries. If I could be any comic character, I'd be Green Lantern, and I'd live up to my name by smoking a gram of green everyday. I know this isn't a sex or pot thing, but I thought I'd add it where it fits, right after Marc's post. And just to add, I think Marc has it made. I was going to be a chiropractor, but now I'm considering getting a degree in botany and moving to Amsterdam to work in a marijuana facility of some sort. My greatest fantasy would be to work with marijuana in accordance with the law the more I think about it.
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funglewood
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2/18/00 02:23 PM
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wow, i can't believe how general the question is. do you mean chewing on commercial stems versus sex on a trapeze with 25 pornstars? or is it that first beautiful hit from my bong at 10 a.m. on a sunny summer day versus the sloppy, ill remembered sex i have while drunk? thank god i'll never have to choose, 'cause i'm all indecisive when i'm high.
may your juices forever flow with herbal wine!
"ignorance and apathy are the enemies of freedom."
like i care.
wonko.
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dormouse
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2/22/00 12:10 PM
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I am also living a rather fantasy-esce lifestyle, dispite my current lack of weed. Make my own hours, wonderful husband, ect.
Weed or sex, eh? that's like saying "water or oxegen" to me. Rather addicted to both. (if addiction is needing something to be happy, like good food).
Besides, i could give up pot for a weekend of hot monkey lovin' with a total babe, and go back to mj later.
Love or sex? I'd give up anything for the man i love, but i love him 'cause I'd never have to.
Dormouse from Somewhere else.
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funglewood
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2/23/00 04:10 AM
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dormouse, you sound like such a sweetie. your man must be a very lucky guy, indeed.
love is life; pot makes life bearable. lol
"ignorance and apathy are the enemies of freedom."
like i care.
wonko.
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odorless
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2/23/00 11:37 AM
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Sex. What more should one say.
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Urania
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2/23/00 01:59 PM
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Being a pisces, you are said to be walking the thin line between extremes. You as a soul, having seen so much of life, must choose between light and darkness. Or so they say. I believe that there is much more in between those two extremes. I believe itis possible and preferable to live with Love and Friends and Herbs and whatever you choose to be important in your life. If you are lucky enough to find and give unconditional love, you will never have to face such choices or compromises. Your youth is inside you and your body will communicate that age to the world outside you. You will reflect the ease with which you live your life and the way you treat your body through the lines on your face. You don't have to be afraid of aging, it doesn't mean that your life is over. I hope that you experience a love/friendship/partner based relationship that will liberate you even more. Speaking one free spirit to another,it feels incredible.
"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage" Anais Nin
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Urania
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2/24/00 10:22 AM
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By the way, my last post was a response to raisins 2/15/00 post, being new to all this I forgot that my post was going to appear way down below the one I was responding to...
"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage" Anais Nin
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Anonymous
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2/25/00 08:15 PM
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Hello Marc,
I can concur with your opinion of "four areas of agreement" between a couple BUT not with the idea that if your partner does not smoke or enjoy enlightened states of being due to chemicals of your choice, cannot work. Why would one want to? Well, Marc if your state of enlightment were to add to the others fulfilment of needs or wants, could it not be more creative therefore more enjoying? Is sex only enjoyable to "chemically induced" people or does a non-enlightened person that much of a turn-off? Or does your partner usually "do all the work" and you are as Funglewood states on a post on Stoner Sexuality " Most Male Stoners are lazy" or something to that effect... I really cannot believe you are so closed on this area unless you have had terrible past experiences and you must be suffering from "Post Traumatic-Stress Disorder". Well, I for one will not let the other females on this board think that you are a inconsiderate pig (oops) I mean prig about this subject. For one who is so compassionate to other peoples struggles of the medical and non-medical nature dealing with cannibis, I will attest to the fact that you e-mail a very nice, letter back to me helping me with a problem of the medical nature and even went as far as to make reccomendations (which where correct :) ) So Marc,- I will help your plight for future princesses for the "Prince of Pot" and then you will end your "less than glorious" problems and widening your playing field by including females of the non-chemical,non-herbal,but sexually wanton type. And in all reality, this is just my opinion and I am "just joshing around" with you Marc. That it could and does work between a user and non-user,it does and it is worth pursuing if everything else is there . I know...
:)Neen:)
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FlashGordon
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2/26/00 02:37 AM
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funglewood you crack me up man lmfao dormouse i didnt know you were a girl dont worry i still think your coments are cool lol
Enjoys the Healing Herb
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dormouse
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2/26/00 10:03 AM
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Understandable that you didn't know i was a chick, even though it's in my profile, i only occasionally click on profiles anymore because so few people have them.
As for the "princesses of pot" thing, some of you may have misses the issue (i can't find it right now, buried in my collection of pot-zines and pornomags) with picture from Marc's wedding. Very belated congrats, i think this happened around the same time as my own wedding. (oops, i spelt it WEEDing at first, one-track mind sometimes).
Dormouse from Somewhere else.
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Neen
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2/26/00 02:08 PM
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Hello Dormouse,
Like I stated in my letter, I meant no harm or offense toward any one, especially the person I was humoring in my post. I think I did read in a article about Marc being married. I was responding to the contents of his post and was only using a idoim ofspeech regarding "Princesses of Pot". I apologize if I was offensive, especially to Mrs. Emery. My sense of humor is a little quirky. I only wanted to state, as Marc did, my opinion and answer his question of "Why would anyone want to?" Post conciliatory congratualtions on your wedding. Are you and your spouse consensual users of mj? You see, it really does not matter to my husband that I do what I do because he reaps the benefits of my altered state of mind. His comment towards this topic is that he sees a remarkable positive difference in many facets a couple deals with on a day to day basis and it brings more intimacy to our family "in-toto" :) .
BTW - Is there a story behind the name "Dormouse" (Gliridae-Old World squirrelike rodent??)
*PeAcE*~Neen~
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Marc Scott Emery
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2/26/00 02:32 PM
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It can only make me happy when women are speaking of my sexual existence. Talk on!
Marc Emery - Moderator
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DerekBowler
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2/27/00 01:25 AM
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Tricky... Are we talking purely about sex with another? "Self-manipulation" if you will (and I betcha will), most find at least as stimulating physically as sex with another. Of course there is a profound psychological aspect also when dealing with a partner(or so I have read). The point I would make, is that with intercourse there is at least something of a substitute in masturbation. Although it is certainly an informative and fun read, one doesn't catch a buzz by flipping through Cannabis Culture, if you catch my meaning. Also, it's difficult to imagine some guy spending $15 for five telephonic minutes of, "Then I'm gonna gently roll the paper over the bud, yeah baby. Uh-huh, I'm caressing the center with my thumbs...Oooooo, uh, yer gonna make me Stoned!!"
Of course, that's just my opinion. I could be Dennis Miller.
Thank-you for your time and patience.
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dormouse
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2/27/00 02:43 PM
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Oooo, pot porn!
I've seen some people that leaf thru High Times and CC (especially the pics in the Emery catlogue) the way others look at porn. Much as I hate to hype the competition on this site (CC kicks HT's ass) one of the best picture I ever saw was a HT centerfold of a cute chick watching a small TV lying out in a room half-full of pot (i don't know if it was really pot, but the idea was stimulating). The stuff was up to the window sill!
Enough about that, CC has the Budbabes (yay).
As to my post, i didn't mean to insinuate that anyone would be offended. My husband was one of the first people to turn me on to the idea of drug use, and we're living smokily eveer after. thanks for asking.
The name is kinda two sided:
Lews Carroll's "Wonderland" stories are some of my faves, so the dormouse who attended the Mad Tea Party (with the Hatter and March Hare) is the inspiration for the name when spelt this way.
I've spelt it "doormouse" elsewhere due to the fact that one of my favorite bands is the Doors.
Wow, this post is way too long.
Dormouse from Somewhere else.
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Preacher
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2/28/00 01:15 PM
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Stick with the pot man. Women come and go, but the ganja is here to stay.
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Emmelyne
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4/23/00 11:27 PM
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high all, congrats to Marc on the nupitals....
ok soooo this paragraph brings up some questions i'd like answered and shakes my admiration of marc a bit....
>The problem is..........no fun/energy>
1. are there any women in this forum who enjoy anal sex?? because i have never personally spoken to even one(private me if you want).
and if so what are the enjoyable aspects and/or foreplay needed to get you in the mood?(if there's an enjoyable sexual experience i'm missing out on i wanna know about it!!!!)
2. why are rampantly heterosexual men obbsessed with anal-sex..yes i really want to know...because the idea of causing my partner physical discomfort puts me right off sex if i care for them.(and please don't give me the "tighter hole" crapLOL..or i'll just assume you've never had sex with a woman with control of her pelvic floor muscles. the cleopatra's grip is painfull for some men)
3. why is it that when guys say "threesome" they usually mean two girls/one guy..would any of the guys here be cool with having a sexual experience with their girlfriend and another hetero guy who lusted after their girl? and if not why not??(in my experience real dykes won't be into a threesome with you and the boyfriend..sooo the alternative is straight/bi girls who are usually actually after the man involved)
4.whats the best way to get a man to perform oral sex more??
peace
Emmie
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funglewood
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4/24/00 08:38 AM
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so, emm, does this mean that you choose pot over sex?
let the pigs get fatter! they sizzle better, that way.
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dormouse
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4/24/00 11:33 AM
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"Come on, Chef. Haven't you ever heard of a menage a trois?"
"Yeah, when two women are involved."
Y.D.G.
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Dana Larsen
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4/26/00 02:04 AM
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1. Anal sex is something that scares many women, but all the ones I've introduced to it have come to enjoy it and ask for it sometimes. I think the key, for me at least, is a combination of extreme cleanliness, trust, relaxation, lubrication and gentle firmness. Plus lots of simultaneous clitoral stimulation.
2. Anal sex is a combination of extreme tightness, power and mastery. Who knows? But it can be wonderful.
3. My threesome experiences have been limited to 2 guys and 1 girl. I think the jealousy aspect has to do with socio-biology and social conditioning.
4. Ask him. Moan alot, give compliments and act appreciative. Or get into 69's. Or offer a trade...
Dana Larsen
Editor, Cannabis Culture Magazine
ccmag@cannabisculture.com
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Emmelyne
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4/30/00 06:01 PM
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:) Funglewood, he he he...i guess so if i can't have both! Unless we're talking seriously hedonistic, selfish coitus with the bf and Paul McDermott(aussie celebrity comic and naughty, Naughty little monkey!!!)(but truthfully i guess modo's got it right :) )
((Dormouse)) - "Damn woman i already gave you sweet lovin' five times!!!"
Dana- thanks...1.sounds right and reasonable... 2.hmmmm your use of the word "mastery" made me realise that may be the problem...subbmisssion isn't a behaviour which makes me feel sexy...its a good thing i'm a small woman physically 'cos in my minds eye- "I'm six foot 'tree an i'm big an' i'm black..with long natty dreadlocks down me back..jah no?!!" LOL....
3. yep agreed also the fear of any even mildly homo-erotic behaviour nu?
4. done it, am very vocal, in my experience men can't tounge worth a damn in the sixty-nine position..too distracted..and i can't offer to trade something he normally recieves as my version of foreplay can i??(actually i was "spoilt" the other night..wonder if it was cos he read this thread??)
godddaMN!!!i LOVE you people:)
peace Emm.
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JohnnyHempseed
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5/3/00 08:56 AM
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pot. peace
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FlashGordon
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5/30/00 02:23 AM
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this conversations takin some turns what if i said i woulnt give up pot for love either? i just cant imagine a relationship witout being able to smoke it wouldnt matter as much if my partner didnt toke but would be better if they did but no not even on a trapeeze (ps i came snooping around in here because quizmik said somebody has been saying im sexy and ive been dying to know who)ps my sites updated with new photos
Enjoys the Healing Herb
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Anonymous
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6/12/00 08:53 AM
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pot...
Find a slut if you wanna get laid, and if you want a relationship find a girl who smokes. I personally, wouldn't give up Maryjane for any girl, ever.
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Slater
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Fuck, if I had to choose between sex and pot for one night I would choose Sex WAY over pot, but over a life time? No I wouldn't. I can find anyone to have sex with.. (I hope) And fuck, I just turned down the Hottest girl and she smokes dope. I'm such a loser. The girl I am with now Hates it too. AHRGG. oh well, Live and Learn.
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jeremys
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6/15/00 09:55 AM
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I would becuase the experanice is a wonderful and sexual evolvement with another person with the one you love but it can't go over bord "i tried to ask allmy girlfriends if they wanted to have a threesome with both sexes and she went and did prostiution now that is crazy , Well if she wanted it was her choice not mine so at first i was ignored by what she did but after a while i thought about it and said if she was stooned it was a experieance she wanted to do. and if any one likes to swing just asking just a little curious about it or do orgys i.m new to experiances.
turtle
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SkinneeSmoker
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6/17/00 00:45 AM
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jeremys - you're fucked up man...honestly quit smoking crack! your stories get more confusing ever post. plus your stories aren't adding up...you married or you have a whore for a gf....what is it man.
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wingnutter
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2/19/01 04:17 PM
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I guess im lucky I dont have to choose ...my girl loves a toke as much as me and loves sex ...plus she gets even more horny than usual when stoned ...a all round win win situation for both of us ...!...not to forget the fact that I love her heaps ...shes lovely :)
"pot" whats that something you put your soup in? (me before i started smoking)
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bliss
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2/21/01 10:15 PM
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I like both...solo.
May the forest be with you...
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greeneyes
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i would probably choose sex than smoke some pot later without my partner knowing. i'm fortunate enough to have a girlfriend that doesn't smoke and doesn't mind me smoking but she just doesn't want me to smoke in front of her. I usually go take a shower and smoke in there or just step out back for a fatty =)
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SanFranGrower
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I guess I ahve the best of both worlds. Wasn't always the case.. ended up with a bitter divorce to a woman who would always bitch at me for sparking up. Not long after the divorce she's calling me wanting a hook up!!!
Now I've been with a gal for four years... we have incredible sex, love each other dearly, and she enjoys my passion for cultivation and smoking as much as I do! She's always chipping in around the garden and occasionally brings me little things for my grow room. Lately she brought me a gazing ball, afraid it doesn't do much good in 16 sq. ft... but she says its for when I move out to the East Coast and mvoe up to 38 sq. ft :)
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blondebudstar420
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4/11/01 09:04 PM
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how horrible, if any guy told me that it was either him of pot i would be like put your pants back on and get out of my house... even when people tell me that they are going to quit smoking pot, it just hurts my heart, i could never be with a guy that didnt toke up, even if it was occaisionally, and not the everyday pot head, this thread really made me miss my ex- who i smoked pot with daily, the best pot, alaska pot... ohhh, good times, thankfully though were still friends and im gonna go smoke some of that incredible pot with him the next time im up there....
-peace not greed, legalize weed-
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FlashGordon
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4/12/01 02:55 AM
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thanks for being so honest BlondeBudStar420 .
I feel a little sick when people say there going to quit pot too .
Especially when i can see that its helping them.
I hate it when they blame there personal failings on pot when usually its the only thing keeping them together . Generally when people don't smoke pot they get sicker .
It seems to be great preventative medcine for whatever ails you .
Why would a diabetic give up thier medicine ?
Only good reason to quit is to get back a proper buzz .
It's beyond me why a pot head would ever go to NA meeting . Everything in moderation sure , in wise hands poison is medicine and in foolish hands medicine is poison yeah .
But Quit pot ? Maybe get a vaporisor , but quit pot Never !
John Gordon
http://www.bcmarijuanaparty.ca/c_john_gordon.htm Vancouver- Kensington .
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barneyfife
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4/15/01 11:00 PM
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i wouldnt give weed at a womens request or demand. but if i had to choose! for some reason i could only weed or sex. its pussy everytime for me yea baby!
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horny_toker
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When it comes to sex or pot, I prefer to combine the two. I'm not horny toker for nothing.
Great sex and great pot put with great music make for some unbelievable times limited only by your own imagination.
Having just got out of a BAD relationship where the ex didn't smoke at all, I plan on sticking with the stoner dudes.
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Reaper
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4/25/01 01:27 AM
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I choose to have both. If my wife made me choose, I have to be honest and say that I just wouldn't tell her. She knows that I do smoke, even though she doesn't, and doesn't stop me (thank God!) as long as I keep it away from her, but I would keep it from her if I had too, because I enjoy smoking, and I don't let it interfere with our marriage. Sounds cold hearted, but it's the truth.
"Reaper On Reafer"
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kernalkozmic
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smokin since 18, 36 years now had plenty of good sex, i'd vote pot (with the possible exception of twins and wesson oil or victoria steele [budbabe]) besides you gotta be careful now......not like the good ole days hah!
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