Island_Girl
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2/8/00 06:18 PM
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From a females point of view
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Well, this is just my experience with smoking and sex.
all my girlfriends tell me otherwise, i must be the only one :-)
When me and my man used to smoke together, he would get totally horny.
Me, on the other hand, prefered playing some Bob, or watching one of the Beyond the Minds Eye Videos.
the few times I have tried sex stoned, I have not climaxed.
I am totally distracted and can't stop thinking about other things, mosly food.
don't get me wrong, I am a VERY sexual person. My man can't keep up with me!
now i don't know if its because I am stoned mself times seems to go slower, or my man actually lasts longer.
But he does seem to last longer when he smokes.
ahhh...I wish he still smoked. heheh
Peace
~Island Girl~
P.S. Am I the only female posting on this section? lol
oh yeah, I forgot one thing:
Stoned is the best way to give oral pleasure, don't you think?
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Dana Larsen
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2/8/00 11:20 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Some women have told me that the first time they climaxed was due to pot's aid and influence. You seem to be an exception. I find that often the first high that comes after smoking is more energetic, talkative, active, and that after a while comes a quieter, warmer, more sensual feeling. So maybe your b/f should wait a half hour after smoking up to try and lick you. And if you're thinking about food, maybe you should have a quick snack, and then get down to it. Or eat a snack off of each other...
Stoned is an excellent way to give oral or any other kind of pleasure. I find marijuana helps me to groove to the feelings and energies of my partner, allowing us both to provide each other with greater pleasure.
Dana Larsen
Editor, Cannabis Culture Magazine
ccmag@cannabisculture.com
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Island_Girl
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2/9/00 11:25 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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thx Dana :-)
Yeah, eating food off each other sounds like a good idea. do that sober, wonder why I didn't think of it before?
too bad my honey quit smoking :-(
Peace
~Island Girl~
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l'tlgreen
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2/9/00 11:37 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Your not the only female who posts! I have not had the same experiences, however your questions did get my wheels turning. Could it be that when you're about to have sex you have other things on your mind; or that your headspace begins to feel all sexy and warm, but then you get side tracked with other thoughts that aren't so sexy, or that your sexy thoughts but become over used and your in need of some new fantasies? Or prehaps I'm completely off track and it's more of the physical sensations that your missing, even though I personally feel that I become more sensative. Pot has been known to shorten attention spans, maybe you need some constant visual reminder (like porno) to bring you back to your present state of being. Also, have some very sexy food (like strawberries) close by, or use them as props! Good Licks and Happy Humping to you and yours!!
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Island_Girl
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2/9/00 11:54 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Yeah, I think it could be the attention span thing.
I work a lot and go to school. I guess when I smoke all I want to do is relax both body and mind.
I was thinking about it after your post, and I think it could be how stressed and tired I usually am,
which is main reason why I smoke :-)
I do like the food idea though!
Peace
~Island Girl~
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Anonymous
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2/10/00 04:20 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Emmie-forgot -pass again :)
hmmm, :) i find that pot extends the "plateau" part of an orgasm...and since thats my favourite part..:)....i sometimes have a similar thing where i can't keep my mind on whats happening in the bed when i'm stoned...i suggest getting up out of bed and making a game out of running around the house nekkid making snacks, showering, watching the telly...with little bits of massage, oral or teasing thrown in..you'll have your mind on the matter at hand in no time :)giving oral better stoned..can't say i'm picky about when i get it tho"*grin*
(((((((girly group huggg))))))))
Emmie
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grandma
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2/10/00 05:04 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Munchies, with out weight gain. (smile) cure for dry mouth
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Anonymous
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2/11/00 11:55 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Island Girl- I have put this question to woman many times over the years and have found that almost universally woman say similiar things to you: that the last thing they want when stoned is sex...
Woman are able to concentrate on more than one thing at once(as we men are constantly frustrated by,anyone remember the joke "Sam,the ceiling needs painting"..)and smoking pot only makes that multi-tasking ability more prevelant in woman it seems and consequently sex ain't on the thinking list...
Just my many 2 cent's worth
your mileage may vary....
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jeremys
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2/17/00 05:07 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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OK I'm a guy this is my question on what do you ldies feel about a father that smokes mj and has kids should he quit smoking for the kid or take on the responseabilty of taking care of the child while being stoned or smoking. any views on this please
turtle
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Anonymous
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2/17/00 06:49 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Hi
I am a stay at home mom that is with my two children 24/7. Their ages are 5 and 7 and I know I am much more relaxed when I imbibe in the pleasure of smoking. I do not do this in their view or where they can breathe it either. I know foer a fact I am much more pleasant to be with. I get very silly and play their way more so I think we are all benefiting from this. I am mucch more loving ang nurturing towards them when I am more relaxed. If I were you I wouldn't worry about it as long as you keep it out of their sight and it isn't causing any negative problems. You really still have control over all the necessary functions ( depending how much you smoke) unlike alcohol. I think my children would be frightened of me if I didn't take the time I need for myself in order to give back to them the love and nurturing they need. Hope this helps. Neen.
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Anonymous
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2/18/00 03:57 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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I have had the same experience as you. I want to listen to Pink Floyd or eat some munchies. Also my mouth is so damn dry
it's kinda hard to keep the action going when I can't even move my tounge around in my mouth. Since I like to use my mouth,
it makes it kinda hard. I like smoking after sex, it really relaxes me and makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
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Emmelyne
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2/18/00 04:23 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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jeremys :) i agree with the above post...as long as your co-ordination, motor skills,and decision making faculties aren't too affected it's probably not a problem...i don't have kids but i have friends who do..and i am much more present in the moment and patient with them when i'm slightly stoned, as long as you are not forgetting to do important stuff for them or endangering them who cares??? much better than a drunk old man or someone too stressed too play :) just don't do it in front of them..have it in the bathroom cabinet or something :)
peace Emm
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jeremys
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2/20/00 01:06 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Hi! Emee thank you for the advice about this question and i agree with you on this so if you won't to talk send me a post or aprivate message your welcome to ok.
turtle
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jigglypuff
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2/20/00 07:18 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Hello all. I am new here. I just wanted to say that when my children were young pot helped me to have more patience. I noticed another post on here somehere by a gal named Emmyline. she talked about how well she did with the little kids at the party. Well that is the way i was and I don't think I could have done ti without the mj. After a while the children can kinda wear on you after 24\7. You know. Pot just mellowed me out. Also slowed down the old man in the amor department! :)
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GreenLove
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2/21/00 10:47 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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My last two girlfriends would both became aroused and sexually aggressive after smoking.
Don't spare the green love.
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dormouse
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2/22/00 12:50 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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I'm a female stoner, and have always had a rathershort attention span, so pot doesn't really make it any worse.
I find the best solution is to get things you want done, done.
I usually smoke to relax after getting the chores done, and neve trip out until the house is clean and i've eaten something.
An attractive friend is a great cure for the munchies.
Dormouse from Somewhere else.
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funglewood
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2/23/00 04:20 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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yum, yum. so, how do i get you ladies over to my house? (just kidding, i couldn't possibly find room for all of you!) i'd like to run some "experiments" on the effects of mj on a woman's sex drive. . . .
ignore me, i'm a pig.
free love, free herb, free life.
"ignorance and apathy are the enemies of freedom."
like i care.
wonko.
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goanna
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2/23/00 05:42 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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I have found that pot relaxes me immensely, I'm extremely hypo ...and won't stop until all that could be done that day is done ... then i find kicking back in our banana lounge in the arvos after a few cones would have to be the ultimate ending to my day ... i need alot of rest... it seems my mind runs overtime even while making love with my partner ..i wander off somewhere then when i catch myself doing it ,and i have to switch back and concentrate on the task at hand ... but yes i also find it more difficult to orgasm whilst under the influence of pot or alcohol ....coke and eccies - much different story ...oh girl ! get it on then !
ttfn ...and cheers. goanna
Men are more lawabiding than women We figure that since we didnt make thy rules thy dont apply to us
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Dana Larsen
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2/25/00 02:56 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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When we were courting, my current partner and mother of my daughter liked to get stoned before sex and it seemed to increase her enjoyment. But she says she can't enjoy smoking pot if she can't relax, and seeing dirty dishes and a slobby house is not conducive to relaxation, pot smoking, or good lovin.
As for me, I could get high and fuck on a pile of dirty dishes and laundry and be quite content.
Dana Larsen
Editor, Cannabis Culture Magazine
ccmag@cannabisculture.com
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grandma
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2/25/00 05:02 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Dana that was so funny about the dishes and all.
This is a great form. I am like Doormouse in that my mind wonders. My house is a mess though. I can't unpack the boxes. It physically hurts me to do much house work. How ever I keep up on the dishes .... well that is not what I am trying to say,,, um ahh....
I didn't understand men got so horny when they smoke the weed... I thought they were nasty dirty old men.....(my upbringing)...err um This from has helped me understand my husband more and myself too. In a way he will and is a happier man because of this form..ME TOO. I have to stop thinking about all that other stuff that gets in the way of good sex and think about him and myself. I had more to say but I went blank and I am a little red in the face . embarraassed...peace
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funglewood
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2/25/00 07:46 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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sex and pot are both great ways to unload steam... but i tend to forget my duties as well.
nothing else seems quite as urgent after a good lay, while enjoying a good buzz.
then again, once i start cleaning, i can keep doing it happily, because i'm too high to notice just how long the dishes have been sitting.
the difference (as i see it, and i may be wrong) betwixt men and women is simple:
when a woman gets high, and sees a sinkful of dishes, she frets about it, thinks about it, obsesses over it, and finally kicks her man's ass into doing something about it....
when a man gets high with a sinkful, he just stays out of the kitchen.
pax!
"ignorance and apathy are the enemies of freedom."
like i care.
wonko.
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dormouse
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2/25/00 12:08 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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that certainly does seem to be the way it goes sometimes, that's why i unwind with a good smoke after doing all the dishes ect.
Or at times when i don't care and just want to get high, in which case there are munchie packages/bowls all around me in a circle, or all around the bedroom after i get laid.
Now that's a great feeling, getting stoned, having mindblowing sex, and then stuffing myself with food (ice cream last night) in the comfort of my bed.
then i just pass out, and my cats clean the dish.
Dormouse from Somewhere else.
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Anonymous
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2/25/00 12:49 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Dearest Funglewood,
You knew you would get a reply from the female persuasion after posting comments like that. I happen to be a women and stay at home mom (by choice) of two young children. Now, I can tell you, my "wonderful other" is totally spoiled and loved and comes home to a clean home (laundry, dishes, etc.) and is kept completely satisfied sexually due to the fact that I am kept in supply of the wonderful herb by my partner. I seem to get a calm, energetic, happy buzz that makes life definitely more colorful,beautiful, and creative. I actually enjoy my children at 6:30 am to make breakfast or to do any of those repetetive"female" chores for the day that need to be done. Now, if I were out..... That is a different story...
:) Neen :)
"Making a living is getting ~ Making a Life is Giving"
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funglewood
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2/25/00 02:15 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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that's me, neen, reactionary all the way! yay!
i love the tagline, btw!
maybe i can't speak for all men, or all stoners, but my male stoner friends and i are lazy buggers whenever we can be. doesn't matter, anyway. i think i'll butt out of the "girl's room" now.
one last question: if men are priviledged, why don't they have couches in the bathroom, or, for that matter, decent soap?
just wondering.
wonko.
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Anonymous
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2/25/00 04:35 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Dearest Funglewood,
I apologize for the emotional response. As far as "girl's room" I think this thread started off on how we feel toward sex when one is stoned (re:Island Girl's post), I am not sure of this though. My response was due to a question posted by jeremy, and then by you. So, don't feel unwelcomed. You should perhaps (maybe?) glean what info you can get from this forum, that's what brought me here. I think one can never learn enough when it comes to art of giving and receiving pleasure. Also "laziness" does matter if you are unhappy. To be in a restful, enlightened state conducive to your environment can be quite pleasurable. Maybe if more women/men would/could relax ( a hard thing to do after children :) and remember alot of us are mom's and dad's now) and approach one's partner in a more "lazy" state of mind, orgasms would be easier for one to attain with one another. Anyways, that's my "id" on Stoner Sexuality. How can one not enjoy pleasure of any type in this state? I mean, now, come on (not literallly :) ) - we get the munchies so taste is pleasurable, colors and shapes are visually stimulating, certain enticing aromas can get your stomach to respond, and touch -well- I find that the most pleasurable ( Hint Hint:) ). If one is "lazy", hence relaxed, couldn't one reach orgasm (maybe multiple for some:) ) easier?
As for men being "privileged", well there are a many mens' restrooms with couches and, - decent soap? Borrow your partners if yours stinks. Or you could possibly make some. Maybe some hemp/glycerine based soap. With ground Hemp seed added for exfoliating thick skulls (oops) I mean skin. Maybe even a waterproof, non-stinging, lubricant added to the soap that doesn't easily wash off. I think anybody who has tried the shower thing knows what I am talking about.
:)Neen:)
"What women want in life is love
What men want is power ~ and men want power as much as women want love
Men like to think that women don't understand power
- but - in the home-
Power is getting your own way!! So hence "The Priveleged Male" made possible through "The Advantageous Female" Please, this is only opinion. Not said to upset anyone at all....
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funglewood
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2/25/00 06:11 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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i think that maybe you misinterpreted the tone of my post.
i was just trying a little self-effacing humour. i guess you haven't read too many of my other posts, or you'd see that offending me is not easy to do.
where are these couches and this nice soap? i was speaking, mainly, of public washrooms. i hear they're particularily nice for women in restaurants. not for us men, us troopers, us. *whine* no, we're lucky if some dude has wiped a greasy towel on the counter within the last month or so. and everything smells like urinal cakes.
i'm curious... how do you know about men's washrooms? is there a story in there?
iiiiiiii'mmmmmmm saaaaiiillling aaaawaayyyyyy.... (i hear that singing is a good way to woo and win...)
love and laughter,
wonko.
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dormouse
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2/25/00 07:43 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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I've only ever been in 4 or 6 men's rooms in my life, due emergencies when the girl's is closed, or just because of line-up's, which never seem to happen in men's rooms, (or for Other Reasons, twice).
Every one i've seen have been in conditions a lady would think to find in a rather low-class establishment. Most had soap all over the place, and I've never seen one with a couch, or complimentary hairspray/moisturiser, which i have seen in some restaurants and hotels for the girls.
I think the reasons for this are the same reasons men don't have to put up with line ups as often:
1-men take less time in the lavatory on average
2-chicks seem to go to the pocelain room in groups. Even though i'm one myself, i have no explanation for this.
If anyone of either sex can answer this mystery of life, they are indeed wise.
This post has gone on longer than expected...
So aurevoir and happy bathrooming!
Dormouse from Somewhere else.
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Kiddo
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2/26/00 10:01 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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oka y my theory on that
IS
you women plan strategic moves in the porcelain room
and "chit ,chat"
even though you dont want to go you know your friend wants to tell you something
or they just have to go and you are there support group
he he he
well thats just my three cents
~kiddo~
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dormouse
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2/26/00 10:07 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Either i've been left out of what some guys believe is an international girly conspiracy (oops, i've said too much) or it's some strange primitive instinct, the point of which has been buried in pre-history.
Dormouse from Somewhere else.
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jeremys
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3/1/00 02:57 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Ilike when the ladies go to the bathroom so that gives us guys to get abeer to chat plan on the date out just and chit chat. love the p message you sent dormouse.
turtle
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