Island_Girl
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2/8/00 06:18 PM
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From a females point of view
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Well, this is just my experience with smoking and sex.
all my girlfriends tell me otherwise, i must be the only one :-)
When me and my man used to smoke together, he would get totally horny.
Me, on the other hand, prefered playing some Bob, or watching one of the Beyond the Minds Eye Videos.
the few times I have tried sex stoned, I have not climaxed.
I am totally distracted and can't stop thinking about other things, mosly food.
don't get me wrong, I am a VERY sexual person. My man can't keep up with me!
now i don't know if its because I am stoned mself times seems to go slower, or my man actually lasts longer.
But he does seem to last longer when he smokes.
ahhh...I wish he still smoked. heheh
Peace
~Island Girl~
P.S. Am I the only female posting on this section? lol
oh yeah, I forgot one thing:
Stoned is the best way to give oral pleasure, don't you think?
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Dana Larsen
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2/8/00 11:20 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Some women have told me that the first time they climaxed was due to pot's aid and influence. You seem to be an exception. I find that often the first high that comes after smoking is more energetic, talkative, active, and that after a while comes a quieter, warmer, more sensual feeling. So maybe your b/f should wait a half hour after smoking up to try and lick you. And if you're thinking about food, maybe you should have a quick snack, and then get down to it. Or eat a snack off of each other...
Stoned is an excellent way to give oral or any other kind of pleasure. I find marijuana helps me to groove to the feelings and energies of my partner, allowing us both to provide each other with greater pleasure.
Dana Larsen
Editor, Cannabis Culture Magazine
ccmag@cannabisculture.com
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Island_Girl
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2/9/00 11:25 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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thx Dana :-)
Yeah, eating food off each other sounds like a good idea. do that sober, wonder why I didn't think of it before?
too bad my honey quit smoking :-(
Peace
~Island Girl~
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l'tlgreen
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2/9/00 11:37 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Your not the only female who posts! I have not had the same experiences, however your questions did get my wheels turning. Could it be that when you're about to have sex you have other things on your mind; or that your headspace begins to feel all sexy and warm, but then you get side tracked with other thoughts that aren't so sexy, or that your sexy thoughts but become over used and your in need of some new fantasies? Or prehaps I'm completely off track and it's more of the physical sensations that your missing, even though I personally feel that I become more sensative. Pot has been known to shorten attention spans, maybe you need some constant visual reminder (like porno) to bring you back to your present state of being. Also, have some very sexy food (like strawberries) close by, or use them as props! Good Licks and Happy Humping to you and yours!!
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Island_Girl
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2/9/00 11:54 AM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Yeah, I think it could be the attention span thing.
I work a lot and go to school. I guess when I smoke all I want to do is relax both body and mind.
I was thinking about it after your post, and I think it could be how stressed and tired I usually am,
which is main reason why I smoke :-)
I do like the food idea though!
Peace
~Island Girl~
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Anonymous
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2/10/00 04:20 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Emmie-forgot -pass again :)
hmmm, :) i find that pot extends the "plateau" part of an orgasm...and since thats my favourite part..:)....i sometimes have a similar thing where i can't keep my mind on whats happening in the bed when i'm stoned...i suggest getting up out of bed and making a game out of running around the house nekkid making snacks, showering, watching the telly...with little bits of massage, oral or teasing thrown in..you'll have your mind on the matter at hand in no time :)giving oral better stoned..can't say i'm picky about when i get it tho"*grin*
(((((((girly group huggg))))))))
Emmie
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grandma
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2/10/00 05:04 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Munchies, with out weight gain. (smile) cure for dry mouth
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Anonymous
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2/11/00 11:55 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Island Girl- I have put this question to woman many times over the years and have found that almost universally woman say similiar things to you: that the last thing they want when stoned is sex...
Woman are able to concentrate on more than one thing at once(as we men are constantly frustrated by,anyone remember the joke "Sam,the ceiling needs painting"..)and smoking pot only makes that multi-tasking ability more prevelant in woman it seems and consequently sex ain't on the thinking list...
Just my many 2 cent's worth
your mileage may vary....
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jeremys
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2/17/00 05:07 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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OK I'm a guy this is my question on what do you ldies feel about a father that smokes mj and has kids should he quit smoking for the kid or take on the responseabilty of taking care of the child while being stoned or smoking. any views on this please
turtle
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Anonymous
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2/17/00 06:49 PM
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Re: From a females point of view
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Hi
I am a stay at home mom that is with my two children 24/7. Their ages are 5 and 7 and I know I am much more relaxed when I imbibe in the pleasure of smoking. I do not do this in their view or where they can breathe it either. I know foer a fact I am much more pleasant to be with. I get very silly and play their way more so I think we are all benefiting from this. I am mucch more loving ang nurturing towards them when I am more relaxed. If I were you I wouldn't worry about it as long as you keep it out of their sight and it isn't causing any negative problems. You really still have control over all the necessary functions ( depending how much you smoke) unlike alcohol. I think my children would be frightened of me if I didn't take the time I need for myself in order to give back to them the love and nurturing they need. Hope this helps. Neen.
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