Anonymous
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10/2/00 04:20 PM
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Need a womans advice
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OK, I'm going to ask out this girl, problem is I haven't seen her for a year and four months, even then I only had conversations with her half a dozen times. She did have a crush on me at the time though, does that help? Anyway, I was thinking back to that time in my life and remembered her, how beautiful she was, what a sweet girl she was, I couldn't for the life of me think why I didn't ask her out, now, for some reason I can't quite discover, I want to get to know this girl, I'm going to get in touch with her and see if she'll go out with me. She was very attractive so this could all be in vain, she could have someone else, I hope not. So, I need some help, it seems such an odd thing to do, asking someone out who I hardly knew after all this time, I have no idea how to approach this, know idea what she'll think or how she'll react. I don't want to stuff this up, I want this girl. Thank you all.
I can only ask her out over the phone, I do know where she works, or did at least, but asking her there would be a mistake.
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odorless
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10/2/00 05:18 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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You are sort of in a weak position if you don't understand why you are now
so motivated. Women can sense out desparateness or weirdness. Generally
they are persued so understand the nature of the persuers. I am not a woman
but women make sense to me and they are great. Persuit is always a problem
so its best to at least have a good idea of one's own point.
When they legalize we still will produce better medicine. This is medical advise.
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Anonymous
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10/3/00 12:06 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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What makes you think I'm a desperate person? I wasn't "desperate" enogh to ask her out at the time, I'm sure there was a reason I didn't, I can't remember.
I wouldn't call ringing someone up ans asking them out persuit.
Thanks for the advice weirdo.
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Anonymous
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10/3/00 01:40 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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Don't jump all over him because you are too insecure to go and ask some girl out. Next time go ask your shrink for advice and DON'T POST IN THE WRONG FORUMS! The last thing seeds and strains needs is some puke whining about how to ask a girl out.
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odorless
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10/3/00 02:18 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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If "I want this girl" is not persuit what is it, ASSHOLE. Thanks anonymous
for your support in the light of this ungrateful fool.
When they legalize we still will produce better medicine. This is medical advise.
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irie-eyed
(stranger)
10/3/00 02:36 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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you ought to invite the darlin over your place to pass the bong around.
Much Love,
irie-eyed
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Anonymous
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10/3/00 04:15 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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You are on the right track only you need to e-mail HER anonymously and tell her how much you like her and want to get wit her. If that dont work ( or even if it do ) stand out side her apartment and take pictures of her as she walks to her car. If she trys to talk you, run away...
This is how I met my X-Wife!!!
ps you could just try talking her.
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Anonymous
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10/3/00 04:27 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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Anon, I am going to ask her, there's no question of that. Like most people who ask a girl out I want her to say yes, unlike most people who ask a girl out I haven't seen her for over a year, all I wanted was some advice on how to deal with this and some idea of how she might react from a female perspective, so I might know how to respond, instead I get advice on stalking from this wakko broad.
Well, thanks for the advice odorless, but I'm afraid I'm not like you. I think it's quite normal to want the girl you ask out. I'd hate to be on the recieving end of your affections, you've probably got a couple of screws up in your head loose.
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Anonymous
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10/3/00 04:37 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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odorless
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10/4/00 07:36 AM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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If i knew this woman I'd warn her. You are a fucking idiot.
When they legalize we still will produce better medicine. This is medical advise.
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Anonymous
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10/4/00 12:33 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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That would make me ten times smarter than you.
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Anonymous
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10/4/00 12:35 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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And you sure don't know her, you might have seen her though.....in your dreams.
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Anonymous
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10/4/00 03:23 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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::::::You are sort of in a weak position if you don't understand why you are now
so motivated. Women can sense out desparateness or weirdness. Generally
they are persued so understand the nature of the persuers. I am not a woman
but women make sense to me and they are great. Persuit is always a problem
so its best to at least have a good idea of one's own point.::::::
and what the F#$k is YOUR point stoner?
When they legalize we still will produce better medicine. This is medical advise.
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Anonymous
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10/5/00 09:59 AM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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this is the wrong place to go for a womans advice. Most of the people here are dysfunctional fucking idiots.
got your nerve up? Woman like men who are strong enough to be honest with them, if they are not dumb, shallow, lying, biiiiiiiiiiatches. Don't be fooled by seemingly demure appearances, she may not be pretty she just may look that way.
You got your nerve up? If she has got more than you can offer her, she may just shoot you down. If you think she is really very sweet and kind, then the honest approach-I am curious to know if you would like to go for a stroll in the park or a concert or whatever appeals, should do just fine. Your approach should be measured by how nice you think she is. If you think she is cold, cut out before your get surgically removed. Woman can be fickle. And worry about the losers on this forum who are completely aggressive etc. It is in their passive aggressive nature to be exactly who they are.
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grubbynubby
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10/5/00 10:15 AM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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Women are not the enemy! Knowing how to initiate is crucial to this fella, and telling him we are all basicly lying cunts hurts no one but you man.I am sorry you seem to not have had many special relationships with women. What we need is not an account number as you alluded to. What we do need crave even is honesty, compassion and the poetry of motion.
your karma ran over my dogma...
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lil_Smokie
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10/5/00 10:30 AM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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Mail her a lb of weed. If she gets arrested bail her and be her knight in shining armor. However this only something an idiot would do. Go for it!
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Anonymous
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10/5/00 03:58 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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Funny, I've always found Leing works the best with women. I don't mean this to be negative, lying works best with men also. But as for women they want you to be honest when they want you to be honest and you better lie to her every other time because other wise you will end up trying to explain how you could possibly her attractive if you think she is fat (Sorry I like a big rearend and if you say yeah your a little fat but I like it your going to end up regretting it) and I'm SURE that all this is just the women I date so you don't even have to mention that, just throw'n in my two cents.
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Anonymous
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10/5/00 11:26 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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Hello,
You wanted advice from a woman, correct? Personally, I would be flattered. You do know her already so there is a connection. You are not a complete stranger. Was her demeanor always pleasant towards you? It must have been if you like her. It doesn't matter how many months etc., that has passed. If she is involved with someone then that is probably your only downfall - but - who knows, maybe you could be her excuse to change a existing relationship.
I think the only outcome is that she may say no but you will never know until you try and DON"T use this as a excuse for waiting. I had to ask my guy out after waiting a month because he couldn't believe I liked him (he thought I had him confused with his friend). We just had our 7 year anniversary!!! So, who knows? The worst thing you could do is not try. She could possibly be waiting this whole time for you. Life is to short to be uncertain. Put closure to this and at the very least you will have made a girl buddy who may have a future with you yet!!!!GOOD LUCK
@} Blossom @}
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Anonymous
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10/6/00 08:53 PM
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Re: Need a womans advice
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Go see the movie "The Ladies Man"!!! That guy really knows women!!!
By the way, what does dysfuntional mean???
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