Bozo169
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1/5/01 05:04 AM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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SSRI's prolong the time it takes to ejaculate but does not increase the intensity of the orgasm. That takes practices. Or masturbate a hour beforehand.
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Dana Larsen
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1/12/01 01:22 PM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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While jerking off, practice building towards climax and then holding off. This will build endurance.
Squeezing tha base of the cock can slow the appraoch of orgasm.
Slow dow during intercourse, and imagine the orgasmic energy flowing inwards from your cock, and up your spine into your brain. Breathe deeply and move slowly until the feeling of imminent orgasm passes.
You might be interested in this look at the orgasm:
http://www.universal-tao.com/FAQ/healing_love.html
Dana Larsen
Editor, Cannabis Culture Magazine
ccmag@cannabisculture.com
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smokingman
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1/26/01 04:12 AM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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don't get into it for yourelf but for her.try thinking of something that not a big turn on. not to much dont want to kill the mood but enough so you have to work for it
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Liquid_launch
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1/27/01 10:05 PM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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Ok three things I think you should do, Well I think they help me(only really need them when it's been a week or more).
This is the absulute best thing for me try to get shitfaced with her before, just a little word of warning though this does decrease the amount you will both be aroused and remember your mouth might not be the only dry thing. However it does seem to give you more control, the problem might be getting YOURSELF there.
Have you tried having her on top? (married for one year so probably so) this will help but not as much as weed.
My final suggestion is to have you on top, now around the pubic region (on you) if you feel it, it's really hard(pubic bone?) now the idea of this is while your on top kind of grind this against against the same region on her(*Warning* a full Bladder will make this uncomftabale) In my experence(not much at all) this will make you last alot longer and she'll probobaly enjoy this one alot.
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devoid
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2/27/01 11:58 AM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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see this happened to me ewith my girlfriend and all she did was blame it on the fact that i smoked weed...
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north
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2/28/01 10:35 PM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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My husband is a 'minute man', 'two-pump chump'....you know the kind, ahemm(obviously). I don't mind a bit. You know, she will appreciate it in the long run. Imagine doing it e v e r y single day for like an hour or more? You always want what you can't have. I think that mj just intensifies it more.
Anyways ALL the women I know(including myself) would appreciate a quicky since your doing it soooo often.
Please do not take anti-depressants. I am weaning myself off of them as we speak and it is awful. Plus not only does it take you forever to have an orgasm, it makes you think of sex and want to vomit profusely. (You can see why i'm weaning) I do know that cocaine can make you go forever(from previous boyfriend experience).
And yes, women are the sneakiest.
north
Dogs are the uninhibited creatures we might be if we weren't certain we knew better.
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insurgent
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3/4/01 08:36 PM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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NOTE: THIS POST IS SOMEWHAT GRAPHIC, PARENT'S COVER YOUR CHILDREN'S EYES NOW
It sounds like the BIG problem is that she's not getting off and that the brevity of the act is somewhat less important. Wouldn't you be just as happy if you both got there in 5 minutes as if you slammed away at her for an hour first?
Try a new method. If you're like most guys you go at it pretty rough. That's how we are, it's in our nature. You squeeze her breasts and drive hard during intercourse. But women aren't pick-up trucks, they weren't built for that kind of abuse. Not only does it not do the job, but it can actually hurt.
Instead, try being exactly the opposite. Before the actual act be incredibly gentle. Pick any random body part and just barely touch it. Run your fingers along her so gently you barely know you're touching her. Take your time, explore, but always be gentle.
Then move to her breasts. Don't drive straight for the nipple, put that off for a while. Do the same thing here, gently touch and caress. Don't squezze paw or rub. Be sure not to jump the gun, but after a bit of that you can play with her nipples.
This is another one we screw up a lot. They're sensitive body parts, not rubber bands or your dog's chew toys. Soft touching and extremely sensitive sucking. This is a fun place for both sexes if done properly, so enjoy yourself, don't rush. But when it's time, it's time. . .
Now you're ready to do the act itself. The biggest mistakes are made here. What do we usually do? We push that thing in as hard and deep as we can and then repeat for as long as we can. God are we stupid.
Consider the texture of your wife's vagina. It's pretty soft hun? And what's your penis like? Yeah, it's hard. Now consider taking any soft part of your body and ramming it into a brick wall over and over again. That wouldn't be too comfortable to say the least. This is what it feels like for them (or so I've been told). So consider how you'd like the soft parts of your body treated.
First, take your penis in hand and rub it along the outside of her vagina. Yeah, the outside counts too! Do not enter her. Use the tip, go long ways and use the shaft, etc. Do this until she's begging you to dive in, then do it some more. Don't feel rushed, always take your time. When you feel she's desperate enough you can enter. . .
But not all the way! Just the head of your penis or about a half inch. Edge it in there nice and slow, then take it out. This is love, not violence. . . keep it gentle. After a while stop taking it out entierly, but get close. Once you've done this a while you can go deeper, but only about another half inch. Repeat as needed then go another half inch. Getting the idea?
Keep this progressive action up until she's about to explode, but no matter what DO NOT GIVE HER YOUR FULL LENGTH and do not get frantic and violent. You should be going nice and slow the whole time. If you run out of penis before she's ready that's okay, just keep it up but don't go all the way, leave the base part out.
Keep up the same pace during her orgasm. Don't speed up and don't revert to violence. Slow and steady wins that race. If you can hold back your orgasm and keep going (don't worry if you can't, it's difficult)she'll have another in a minute or two! Subsequent orgasms will come much faster and will be even more intense.
If this is done correctly you can make her cum within 5 minutes of when you start in on her vagina. Of course you could take a lot longer, but that was your original problem anyway, right?
As mentioned above, you can quit and then start again. When she's about to orgasm stop cold. Just walk away. Go smoke a bowl and watch football. Or even better hang out in bed and talk, but NO SEX for at least an hour. When you start up again it will come amazingly fast and so strong it will blow your mind.
Some women are so used to being beat up in bed that they don't take to this right away. Just get her to cooperate once and if it doesn't work you don't have to do it again. But I promise you it will, otherwise I've seen some pretty convincing lies.
insurgent
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KY_Bluegrass
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3/5/01 03:42 PM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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If I feel like I'm gonna cum before my wife,I slow down and start thinking of ways to improve my golf game. It works like a charm,except as soon as I'm done,I'm ready to hit the golfcourse for a round of 18. Peace,
KY
"There are things known and things unknown and in between are the Doors..." Jim Morrison
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Simon
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3/8/01 07:35 AM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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I really think that the "thinking about something else" trick is not really healthy. It makes sex more of a chore or something you have to worry about. Best to focus on what's going on and use some more proactive solutions. I'm not a real "stayer" but I've found that a few good tokes right before sex keeps me going longer and is very pleasing. It adds a kind of sureal (sp?) quality to everything.
Cats like the chronic too!!
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love420
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3/8/01 12:59 PM
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Re: Early Orgasms...
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When I smoke some bud and have a glass or two of wine with it (or a couple of beers), I have found that I can last almost forever. You might want to give it a try.
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