angelog420
(journeyman)
1/10/01 11:27 AM
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Butt-bangin Jamboree
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I have a typical problem with my girlfriend. NO, she is fun in bed and YES, it is often enough (2-5 times a day). My problem is that I get arroused at anal sex with a woman (only) and she gets raving mad when I even mention it. She says that it is totally degrading that I would want to abuse her body like that and she cries and asks me over and over "Why I would want to hurt her?" I tried the being logical route by telling her we would use lubrication and it doesn't hurt too much and I wouldn't want to hurt her really but I just want to try some new positions and oracles. She puts up a fight and cries and makes me feel like shit so that sex is postponed for an hour or so. Do I drop the question forever? (because I love her and basically I want to spend the rest of my life with her). OR Do I keep asking till we break up and I find someone who really wants to do it? OR, Do I keep bringing it up in hopes she will see my side of the story?
I think I am going to go with solution number 1 and not ask her ever again because I do love her but things do change over time. Advice is all I am asking for with the situation.
Thanks people.
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panama
(enthusiast)
1/10/01 01:51 PM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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Sorry about your misfortune ANAL log Iam sure things will workout.lol.Maybe you can start strategically directing your tongue that way,When it wicks at you, shes ready. Without anal prejudice. Panama
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junkiebrewster
(newbie)
1/10/01 05:05 PM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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So, you want to go doo-dad deep in the old bomb bay, eh? This can be a very touchy issue with some girls. They view it as dehumanizing and degrading. I could imagine that if you didn't enjoy it, it would be very degrading. Mention it to other girls, though, and they get that porno tigress in heat look in thier eyes. I wouldn't press it too hard (I don't mean that as innuendo!) because it sounds like she is against the idea. It's not worth breaking up a good relationship just because you want to turn her brown eye blue. Plus, if you keep pressing for it, she may get the idea that you have some strange butt fixation, which is never healthy for a relationship. You could try a more subtle, " backdoor" approach, like panama suggested. Rimming and the old stinky pinky are ways to try this, but make sure she's into it before you go sticking anything up there. I once had a girlfriend that I asked about anal sex She said, "Sure, if I can get a strap-on and do likewise." Needless to say, that put an end to that little fantasy. Another girlfriend I had was way into it, to the point where even I was saying, "Don't you have other, more normal orifices?" It feels good on our end, but I can't even begin to imagine how it feels for the ladies.
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ophelia
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1/12/01 04:39 PM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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Well...........since women don't have a prostate gland .......anal sex does not feel quite as good for girls as it does for guys.....That's why guys are so stunned when women sometimes don't want to do it .....because they think it must feel the same for us.......But since alot of sex for women is also in our head anyway...........girls can be turned on by whatever they think turns them on......including that ........
Now , you are doing pretty well from what I can surmise........[ 2- 5 times a day .....!!!!!!! ]
So......is the problem that she is not tight enough ,so you're looking for a different orifice ?
Or are you just looking for a little different type of stimulation for your head...........to coin a phrase .............. ; )
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Dana Larsen
(superposter)
1/14/01 10:57 AM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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Well one thing is for sure, if she's nervous about anal sex don't refer to it as a "butt-bangin jamboree" when trying to talk her into it.
A good guide to anal sex for women can be found here:
http://www.puckerup.com/main.htm
good luck!
Dana Larsen
Editor, Cannabis Culture Magazine
ccmag@cannabisculture.com
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MaxBud
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1/14/01 06:38 PM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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maybe you could just say it's not really anal sex unless you put it in all the way ....... butt really your going to have to start slow and make it feel good for her...... good luck .....
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ecopaind
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1/15/01 04:05 AM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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my last 4 girlfriends were all anal virgins.i didn't even mention it until we knew each other well. a little lick here and there, if they don't clobber your head step 1 is accomplished- they find it stimulating.step two is to gently use your finger, don't just jam it in when she's sitting on you, play with her butt, kneed it, pull it apart a bit, touch it,when she first gets off with anal stimulation and clitoral stimulation she'll be hooked (apperently its an amazingly long and powerful orgasm) , soon enough you'll be in the tightest hole.Keep in mind the 99% of women will say they don'y do it or want to do it but once they know the truth bam, weehoo peace
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panama
(enthusiast)
1/15/01 06:17 PM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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Hey Eco you butt bandit.Actually I like it when my gal jams it when Iam sitting on her.You should try it.lol. Actually one time had a corn niblet stuck to the head,no bullshit,it was august, corn on the cob season,On of my buddy tells of a kidney bean stuck to his head. All part of the fun and games Peace bro. Panama
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Tokernut
(journeyman)
1/15/01 06:23 PM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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OMG!! LMBO!!
Tokernut :)
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ecopaind
(superposter)
1/16/01 02:42 AM
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Re: Butt-bangin Jamboree
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thats hilarious, i can't stop laughing,thanks panama, what can i say i guess i got addicted to porn early in life, gotta love naked chicks. ya ya nekkid chicks hehe
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