Anonymous
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10/10/00 00:14 AM
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How lonely does it Get?
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Hello All,
I was just curious to how many of you out there smoke alone? I started mj for med use and it has helped immensely but I am so tired of laughing at situations no one else gets. Also, munchies by yourself makes you feel - well - more lonely. Pretty pathetic, HUH? My spouse is a non-user and would never jeapordize his job. I understand and would never pressure anyone do to anything but how does one meet a fellow user other than like this? I am not the rave type. Shoot, I shock my children when I were cut-off levi's to garden. What to do? What to do? Offer one to my friendly neighboor? Could you imagine??? They all think I am a oriental version of Mary Tyler Moore and I really hate that!!! Oh well, I was just curious what one does other than watch TV and such. If you have someone-you are lucky!! If you have a group of friends-I envy you. I could really submerse myself into this culture but of course it is new to me and my spouse would leave me (we are currently arguing over whether or not I can tatoo my hip). So - Who Do You Toke With? And what is your favorite thing to do?
@{ Blossom @{
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Bozo169
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10/11/00 04:51 AM
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Re: How lonely does it Get?
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I too smoke alone. I do a lot of stuff alone living in the boonies. I like to smoke then play with myself, but some times I'm not in the mood so I'm the kind of guy who fakes an orgasm while masturbating. Maybe that's why I'm alone.
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insurgent
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10/11/00 05:09 AM
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Re: How lonely does it Get?
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It must be really rough taking up pot at a later age. (no offense, I'm 19 so everyone over 17 is "a later age" 2 me)
My favorite people to smoke up with are my buddies that I grew up with. We started smoking at the same time and hanging out and getting high is a natural. I don't know what your social circle is like, but in the United States one third of the population smokes pot. Count your friends off into threes. Every third one probably smokes.
Smoking alone? Well, you're married so sex is always an option!
TV's okay, but can be kind of unstimulating if there's nothing on. Then again I got high and watched 80's rock infomercials once for 4 hours w/ the same buddies I just mentioned. I like to put on some of my favorite music, sit back and read or look at comic books when I'm getting high alone. It's really nice to have some solitude sometimes and the comic books take me back to being a kid, which is one of the best highs you can have in my opinion. If you have kids, go play with their toys -- you'll have the time of your life! You obviously have a computer, so don't rule out video games. When I'm high I prefer less reality in my games. Games like "The Sims" (which i'm all over when i'm sober) or "Bass Fishing" are definetly not good gettin' high activities. I like stuff that's got a lot of action and where I see stuff I would never see in real life. Check out "Tie Fighter" or "Half-Life".
If you have a medical reason to smoke, you don't need to be too afraid of people judging you, so just ask your friends. If none of them chief, express to your best friends that pot's a hell of a lot of fun and that you'd like to share the experience with them. Worst they can do is say no.
But I feel for you. I left home to come to college and it's really hard to make new friends. Especialy in the drug culture which has a tendency to produce some pretty goofy/boring/stupid people. (Of course not anyone on these forums)
Do you have ICQ? My # is 55271695. Get high and icq me sometime. I'll be your first pot pal of many to come I'm sure.
insurgent
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BudSmokinMan
(newbie)
10/11/00 06:42 AM
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Re: How lonely does it Get?
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Blossom, smoking alone is okay, I have smoked for 25 years, I am 39 now, have had girl friends that smoke and others that don't, my wife does not smoke very often, only when with our 'smoking' friends. I smoke alone or with others, its does not really matter to me. I smoke for medical use, and because I enjoy it!
I love to surf the net or work in the garden :) or read, or listen to music, or any and everything non-smokers do!
I enjoy smoking with my brother, we have been smoking together forever...and we love to go the World Champion St. Louis Rams football games high, I am a season ticket holder.
I enjoy sex while high, and going to the strip clubs is great. Smoking cannabis is as natural to me as breathing and I would really rather smoke before any and everything I do.....(I never smoke before/during work).
Enjoy the weed, and if your spouse does not smoke that is okay, but don't let that stop you. And if you are anywhere near St. Louis, Missouri, I would gladly have you over for an evening of smoking, I am always looking for cool people to hang with.
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Anonymous
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10/11/00 06:29 PM
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Re: How lonely does it Get?
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I hope your not letting this one lonely aspect of your life affect the rest of it. It sounds like otherwise you have a full life and you shouldn't worry too much about smoking by yourself. I know when I first started smoking alone (purely recreational, well maybe a bit as an antidepresant but I've never been diagnoised(sp?) with depression so?) I felt a little like a addict/druggie but after a while I came to terms with my habbit and it hasn't really bother me since. With your life I think you might enjoy a little time to yourself to think, pounder, meditate, one of my favorite activities is to fire it up and just close my eyes sit back enjoy the buzz and let my mind wounder and then when the high isn't quite so intense I move on to other activities (or take a few more and go sink back into tranquil relaxation). I agree that comics can be a great activity I have a hard time reading if I am too high so I prefer animia(sp?) although you might have a problem finding titles that you find appealing/nonrepulsive. And I would also enjoy smoking up with you (s central wisc), I have a hard time finding people who can handle a life and MJ to so many they are the one and the same.
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Mamakind
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10/11/00 09:38 PM
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Re: How lonely does it Get?
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Well first of all, Blossomgirl, you gotta go get yourself logged in! I've met so many people online, even just in the last couple of months... But if you don't logon you can't get private messages and people can't see if you're haunting the forums (if you choose to set your profile that way).
I've already recognised your beautiful posts from other forums -- have fun with your online persona!
I've done most of my smoking alone for the last 3yrs or so (since I became solitarily preggo). I'm one of those people who just does better around other people anyway, but if you must toke alone, look at it as a kinda special thing that's JUST FOR U. Like masturbation, you can do it with other people about, but isn't it the best when it's 100% about you? There are very few things after you become a mother that are 100% about you, as I'm sure you're well aware.
As far as your hubby being a knob...well I'm sure you love him and all but he's being a knob. If my soulmate told me of a way in which I could forever please him and help him to be healthy and happy and giggly I would do it no matter what it was. Even if he doesn't want to get stoned with you, he should be supporting you and be there with you and enjoy your bliss right beside you.
Jeers to your guy, BLossom!
"You don't smell as if you've been smoking marijuana, you smell as if you ARE marijuana." - my Dad.
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Anonymous
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10/12/00 00:34 AM
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Re: How lonely does it Get?
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A lot of people toke alone, nothing wrong with it in my opinion. I tend to smoke by myself a lot since I tend to be the anti-social type. I have friends that smoke but we don't hang out every single day, while I DO smoke every day =)
My favorite thing to do while baked: See PHISH live in concert! Unfortunately this is no longer an option as they are taking an indefinite break from touring. Still, I have many bootlegs and pop them in all the time. Not quite the same as being there but it's still enjoyable. I highly recommend checking them out, just make sure you buy a live album (there are 3 available).
You'll find some new friends who toke, just a matter of time. We're everywhere!
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foam
(member)
10/15/00 07:06 PM
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Re: How lonely does it Get?
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Logged in, ay? Lol!!
Laughing too much, now this I can understand. Might try a different variety, Some make you laugh and get the munchies more than others. Trouble is the varieties come and go down here, so if you find something good, get a stash going..
Full Moon Unmasks, The Stranger in Us All
Peace, Pot, and Good Luck!!
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foam
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10/15/00 07:13 PM
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Re: How lonely does it Get?
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Hey Anti-social, How is "Hampton Comes Alive" I've been to a shit load of concerts there..
Full Moon Unmasks, The Stranger in Us All
Peace, Pot, and Good Luck!!
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